The Box in the Closet
Almost everyone has one. A box, a case, a folder, a bin. Inside is the thing you used to love. Maybe it is a guitar with two broken strings. Maybe it is a set of watercolors that dried out a decade ago. Maybe it is a stack of short stories you wrote in college and never showed anyone.
You did not stop loving it. Life just got in the way. A job that ate your evenings, kids who needed rides, a house that always needed something. The hobby became a “someday” project, and then it became invisible.
Why Now Is Actually the Right Time
Here is the thing nobody tells you about your 50s and 60s: you are better at learning things than you were at 22. You have patience you did not have then. You have context. You know what you like. And you are not trying to impress anyone or turn it into a career. You just want to do the thing.
Real time plus zero pressure is a combination younger you never had. Older you actually does.
Start Smaller Than You Think
The temptation is to go big. New equipment, a class, a whole reinvention. Resist that for the first month. The goal is not output. The goal is reintroduction:
- Pull the old thing out. Sit with it. Play three chords, sketch one bowl of fruit, write one paragraph. See how it feels in your hands again.
- Keep the doses tiny. Fifteen minutes on a Tuesday night. A Saturday morning before anyone else is up.
- Lower the bar on purpose. Nothing has to be good yet. It only has to happen.
The Money Part, Handled Honestly
Hobbies can turn into money pits if you let them. The gear industry is very good at convincing you that the reason you stopped enjoying something is that you did not have the right equipment. Usually the reason you stopped was that life got busy, not that your beginner camera was inadequate.
A comeback that sticks tends to follow a pattern like this:
| Phase | What to do | What to spend |
|---|---|---|
| Month 1 | Use only what you already own, in small sessions | Nothing |
| Months 2 and 3 | Make it regular; add one friend, class, or group | A class fee at most |
| After 90 days | One meaningful upgrade that solves a specific frustration | One item, not a full kit |
| Ongoing | Give the hobby a real line in the budget | A modest, intentional monthly amount |
A budgeted hobby, spent on intentionally, tends to bring more joy than an occasional big splurge that arrives with guilt attached.
Find One Other Human
Solo hobbies are wonderful. Solo hobbies with one friend, one class, or one small online community are usually stickier. You do not need a scene. You need one person who asks, “Did you get to play this week?”
Local libraries, community centers, and adult education programs are quietly full of people who came back to something they used to love. Show up once. See who is there.
The Retirement Connection
One of the underrated benefits of a real hobby, especially heading into retirement, is that it fills the time and identity gap that work used to fill. People who retire without something they genuinely enjoy doing often spend more in the first couple of years, not less. Restlessness is expensive. A hobby you already love is not.
If you are within a few years of retiring and cannot quickly name three things you would happily do on a Tuesday afternoon, that is worth a conversation, both with your spouse and with your advisor. The financial plan matters. The life plan matters just as much.
What Comes Back With It
People who return to an old hobby often describe the same surprise. It is not just the activity that comes back. It is a version of themselves they had not seen in a while. The one who was curious, who made things, who lost track of time. That person did not disappear. She was just waiting for a quieter schedule.
You do not have to become a master. You do not have to sell anything, post anything, or prove anything.
You just have to open the box.
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Ronald J. Briggs Jr., FIC, CRPC®, is an industry veteran with more than four decades of experience and the founder of Briggs Financial Group, Wealth Advisors (BFG). Alongside his team of tax and risk mitigation specialists, Ron serves clients across the U.S. from dual national headquarters in Brighton, Michigan and Bonita Springs, Florida.
BFG grew out of a firm Ron founded in late 2010: Caitlin John Private Wealth Management, a fiduciary Registered Investment Advisor named for the middle names of his and his wife Kristin's two children. His vision was to build a fiduciary-based advisory practice capable of serving his clients and the generations that follow them.
The boutique feel and personalized experience Ron's clients came to expect drew the attention of other advisors, both locally and nationally, and the firm grew accordingly. Each of those advisors joined Caitlin John to practice under a truly independent, fiduciary RIA while keeping the individual brand and identity they had built in their own community.
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